Monday, June 29, 2015

Chronicles of Fatherhood - a month has past

No wonder so many parents say time flies even faster when u have a child. And if you don't cherish your moments, they will past in a flash. They were right.

The past month whisshed pass in a flash. From roughing it out and my MIL's place, where Amber seems hot and cranky. To our new home in sengkang, where she is still occasionally cranky. 

The Many First Times -
1. Seeing flying poop.. Thankfully I wasn't the target..
2. Participated in bathing Amber
3. Changed her diapers
4. Changed her clothes
5. Putting Amber to sleep
6. Bring her out and carrying her most of the time
7. Survived a pretty massive first month and hse warming celebration
8. Survived a week ourselves without the nanny

Going through the past week, makes me wonder. How does one survive this without extra help? How did our parents do it without a maid or they parents' help?? Were things just that much simpler then? Or have we complicated the upbringing of a child too much. 

Complement that with my ridiculously heaping workload, I'm literally exhausted everyday even though I'm not too sure where the energy was spent. It's just draining....

I'm fortunate that I have a wife that managed many things at home for me. So that I could come home and enjoy Amber. She managed most of the organising of the first month and hse warming. She washes all the clothes and irons them for me. She takes care of Amber by herself when I'm out. Unpacks all the boxes of stuff that I bring home. Let's me indulge in my sinful cooking. Watch TV with me even though she's tired.

THANK YOU DEAR!!!!

Saturday, May 16, 2015

Chronicles of Fatherhood - A new beginning

16 May 2016

1011am - we welcomed baby Amber. Everything was very smooth. Staff and gynae all said everything looked very good. I was actually skeptically wondering if that's what they say to all mums-to-be. Fortunately, we were really smooth. Two strong pushes was what it took. Epidural also helped shield a lot of the pain. 

Baby Amber is beautiful. I can't described how I felt when I held her in my arms. I was happy. Really happy. 

This is an entirely new beginning. This is real now. Amber is here!!!!!!!

Chronicles of Fatherhood - The Prequel part 2 - the Awakening

16 May 2015

4am - epidural is a very strong anesthetic. Wife totally can't feel her legs while the staff are getting busy fiddling ard. "6cm already! Good". How long more do we have? "Probably another 3 hrs." Okay time to try to squeeze in more sleep....

630am - once again staff are getting busy. "Very good, 9cm already. Shld be soon. Water likely to burst soon. Don't be afraid." With epidural, how to feel anything? So I'm earnestly looking out for dripping. It's getting so real. Butterfly population boom in my enclosure.

Chronicles of Fatherhood - The Prequel

15 May 2015

Noon - bought lunch back for my wife. She's complaining about pain in her tummy area and coming quite frequently. Judging by her usual low pain threshold, this seems very slight. Should not be a contraction.

Evening - after work, I met up with my wife at our new house where she had spent the day overseeing some deliveries. She's still complaining about the pain and she's timing the intervals. 

Dinner - she still held on through the pain and it still seemed bearable but the frequency is quite consistent. 

After dinner - sms the gynae about the situation. Gynae said it's likely to be contractions and sounds like labour. I still feel skeptical. 

9+ - went home and gathered the stuff and went over to the hospital to check it out. Still wondering if it's just false contractions.

10+ - hospital staff checking on baby's vitals. Finally sunk into my mind that this could be it!!!

11pm - hospital staff told me to go ahead with the check-in procedures. This is it!!!!! So much running thru my mind. Confinement nanny, Reno works, electrical works, etc. bills!!! 

16 May 2015, Midnite - epidural administered to reduce pain from the contractions. Dilation still ongoing.

2am - wife able to rest but I'm having a butterfly enclosure in my tummy. Not sure if it's the food from dinner or anxiety.

Monday, March 30, 2015

Goodbye LKY

It's been a week of mourning. Our country has been mourning the loss of our first prime minister, the man who led us into independence and into prosperity.

Radios had been bellowing out sad songs day and night. The television channels became like a private history channel about the man's deeds and speeches. It's like onions to my eyes day and night. 

This week, i believe many of us had learnt more about the man then we ever had known. I picked up a few precious lessons of leadership were picked up from some of the videos.

  1. Be firm with your ideals, be prepared to defend them fiercely if you believe in them. 
  2. Be open to other ideas. Give others the chance to sell their ideas and convince you if they can. 
  3. Look at evidence and heed reason. Relations should not govern your decision. 
  4. No one person is above the system. 


I sincerely hope these were also picked up by our current leaders at all levels so that we can continue his legacy.

He was indeed a tough man. who went through tough times. Circumstances made the man and we were the lucky ones who gained from the hardships his generation went through to realise the Singapore miracle.

Sunday afternoon, we watched his final journey from the Parliament House to UCC for the State Funeral. Listening to those eulogies given, just brought the man closer to us and at the same time raised him higher in regards. Once again it was onions in the eyes and it just kept coming.

Thank you for your life of service. Rest in Peace LKY.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

Movie Review: Hobbit - The battle of 5 Armies

The trilogy is made by virtue of the success of the Lord of the Rings series. And we have proven to be suckers for a marketing gimmick. 

The Hobbit book is less than a centimetre thick yet the scriptwriters were able to conjure it into a trilogy. It's even longer than the original series!! 

The plus for this final instalment is that it's shorter than the earlier 2. And that's about where the positives end.

Storyline wise, it's really flat. There's very little development in the story. It's not going anywhere. Fight scenes are aplenty. After a few, it just seems like pointless fighting. 

If this series was actually screened before Lord of the rings, it would have been interesting. Now it's like a poor attempt to recapture the "ooh"s & "aah"s of the earlier trilogy.

My conclusion is simple. I watched it with the mindset to just complete the series. Hence my expectations are already reduced. I still felt bored....

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Movie Review : 等、一个人、咖啡

九把刀的另一个小说改编的电影。

我没有读过九把刀的任何一本小说。可能也没耐心去读。幸好有电影!

前几天看到“康熙来了”介绍这部电影。也看到九把刀的大头症。他的狂妄不是无理的,而是有实力支撑着的。

即”那些年”后竟然还是能有如此催泪的剧本。真的太强了。他强就是强在能够把每一个角色塑造的超夸张,却同时也能让人感同身受。虽然这次的夸张程度远超“那些年”,但是散场的时候还是啜泣声不断。

能从喜爱的人后脑勺摸出烤香肠虽然超扯,但是有多么的渴望自己也有这种超能力!可惜小时候没见过王伯伯。

总而言之,这是值得一看的电影。

赞!!

Friday, August 22, 2014

Lucy - Mind Blown!!

Firstly I must say that this review is done without any verifications of the facts and figures used in the movie. Sometimes ignorance just makes the movie that much more enjoyable. The movie is done in a way that I felt like I'm going through a video lecture about the meaning of life. It's mind blowing concepts that are put forth that grips me. Throughout the movie, I seemed to be trying to validate the hypotheses. But time and again I just stopped the justifying, I just wanted it to be true and want it to happen to me!! How awesome would that be??

I won't be discussing the plot here. I'm more interested in some premises of the function of our brain made in the movie. 

First, all cells have only 2 choices in their lifespan. Immortality or reproduction. Without going into the criteria for each choice, I'll just condense it down to, Humans reproduce cos we can't achieve immortality. It is an eventuality that living things will one day gain sufficient knowledge to make the other choice. 

Secondly, the purpose of reproduction is for the passing of knowledge. Our cells hold infinite knowledge which we are not accessible to. Reproduction passes these encrypted information onwards. We may not know what information we hold in our cells, but the info is there!!

Third, it was hypothesized that once we are able to attain 20% function of our cerebral capacity. The hurdles will be unlocked, because of ultimate self-awareness. We will be able to "colonise" the remainder of our cerebral functions by brute force.

Fourth, all cells communicate with one another. All information is one and all. This part is very similar to the johnny depp Transcendence.

Fifth, all measures and scales in terms of size and physicality are man-made. This is done for the purpose of framing everything into our limits of understanding. 1+1 has never been nor will ever be 2.

Sixth, time is the only true scale of measure. Without time there's no proof of our existence. I particularly liked the example given. "Imagine a car driving through a frame. Then speed it up infinitely. The car disappears."

Finally, at 100% cerebral function. The final step. Basically, u become god.  Others may have different interpretations of this finale, but here's my take. Approaching 100%, Lucy is already pretty much god-like. At 100%, 3 qualities jumped at me.

1. Know it all!!
2. Omni-presence.
3. No more physical form.

aka GOD!!

So what is the purpose of our life? Regardless what we try to do or what we think we are trying to things for, we are only trying to bring us closer to god. Not closer to the god, but closer to being god.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Public Speaking - attempt 1

I was always told that I have the poise of a steadfast speaker. I don't think I have had any problems speaking to a small group or even a classroom size. I've had plenty of practice mumbling away during my volleyball coaching days.

As long as I felt I'm familiar with the content which I'm going to talk about. I don't think I have any issues making a speech out of it. I may not be the motivation-speaker-type getting everyone all hyped up, but at least I try to make people believe I know what I'm talking about and I'm confident about it.

Today I put that perception abt me to the  sternest test. It's 30mins long lecture type speech in front of a crowd close to 200. I'm not too sure what spurred me on to take up this challenge. Perhaps the question to ask was, why not?

Preparation up till today was not exactly intense. Slides were only being confirmed last week. There was only one full rehearsal. Truthfully, I didn't think I'll have much problems until nature decided to attack me.

My throat and nose felt horrible the past few days. My weekend was spent mainly lying on the bed and eating porridge.

Thankfully, I felt well enough today. I only started feeling the nerves when people streamed into the auditorium. It's good that I sat in the front row so I did not have to hear or face the crowd until it's my turn. 

My last minute preparations involved putting myself in a relaxed position as much as possible. Also non-stop brainwashing of myself, "I'm the 1 person who knows everything about the stuff I'm presenting. Everyone knows nuts!!" I kept repeating that to myself and I honestly believe it.

The actual 30mins were over in a flash. Despite sounding like Rod Stewart every now and then and having my ears and nose blocked. I believe I've scrapped through pretty well. It's encouraging to see some among the audience looking at me and nodding as I went along. 

There were many "pats on my shoulder" and "job well done" given. Even though I don't think I did fantastic, I'm glad to get positive feedback. 

Until next time, if I ever do get another chance.

Friday, July 25, 2014

Bang Again!!!

This time a comfort cab hit my car from the back. We really felt the impact when it came onto us.

Immediately it ran through my mind, "not again! I'm really not in the mood to take pictures and swap IDs what not!"

Oddly enough, when I came out looked at the taxi, not a scratch. I looked at my bumper, not a scratch as well. WEIRD. It's a happy weird though. 

I just told the cab driver to forget it and went on with our business. Phew!

Saturday, July 12, 2014

It's back!!

Its been exactly a week since the incident. My car had spent the last week checked into the workshop getting repairs. Because the accident happened on a weekend, the reporting was only done Monday. Repairs started on Tuesday. And now it's back!!!! 
Total work took 3 days. Bumper and bonnet replaced. According to workshop, no damage to the engine! Awesome! Looks good at new!!

Total cost of repairs is not confirmed yet. It's expected to be close to 3k, but pending settlement with the insurance claims side. For me, the current damage will just be $600 in excess payment, until a time my insurance premiums get adjusted due to this. Fingers crossed for no change in premiums.

Thanks to insurance, I got a replacement car for 10days. It's actually quite a huge car.
In a way, it's a blessing in disguise. Monday evening we had to go to the airport to pick up our nieces returning from West Papua. They had tons of luggage. Thankfully, this car had enormous boot space. We managed to cater for most of their stuff in this one car.  This won't be something I could achieve with my picanto. 

The only thing left for me to do now is to expend the petrol in the replacement car before returning it. lol

Sunday, July 06, 2014

Bye Bye Perfect Driving Record

It really not the way I had planned the evening to be. We were on our way to dinner. Everything seemed normal. We were moving quite smoothly on the expressway. I was preparing to keep left early for the Cairnhill Circle exit on the CTE. I noticed there was quite a heavy flow of vehicles joining CTE from Balestier side. I didn't think much about it cause we were on the main flow and should have the right of way. 

Alas! I was wrong, this lorry jammed to a halt. The taxi behind it seemed to be able to stop in time, but I couldn't stop in time somehow. BAM!! We made firm contact with the back of the taxi. I've already maxed my foot brake and handbrakes. Perhaps it was the slope, as I was not travelling faster than 70kph. At that instant, I was just shell-shocked.

Thankfully everyone in the car seemed alright.

But my poor Kia Picanto looked pretty bad at first glance. Picanto was never intended for such impact. Its bonnet folded and the bumper flatten. One of the headlights was smashed as well. We were still able to drive slightly to the URA carpark at KKH to wait for the tow truck. 

We had quite a nice and entertaining guy helping us with the tow to the workshop. Had quite an insight into the work of a tow truck driver. 

On hindsight, it really wasn't that bad considering the fact that the car is still drivable.



Still a nerve-wrecking experience. While it's not really my fault for this incident. It's really important to adhere to safe following distances and speed limits. Things could have turned ugly if I was speeding or tailgating. Both of which are common on roads these days. 

Many things are out of our control. But for those which are controllable. Stick to it. Drive safe!

Friday, June 27, 2014

Life after hard work

This URL is something my wife just shared. And I think It does make sense in our behavior

http://www.filmsforaction.org/news/your_lifestyle_has_already_been_designed/#.U6lXrjZwbwA.facebook

And here we are on a Friday evening, after a seriously stressful week of hard work, chomping down yummy buffalo wings at robert timms, while waiting to watch Transformers in IMAX 3d after midnight! 

Oh we also managed to throw in 2 hrs of intended badminton too. Hahaha

Sunday, May 18, 2014

No Cat was Harmed in this picture

No Cat was Harmed in this picture. This is the most unruly cat I've ever come across. Lying next to a column, it was taking its afternoon nap. At first it was just lying there with its head stuck out in a rather hazardous manner. Minutes later it began stretching itself and the fore limbs are now a hazard too. All this while the mouth is open. Not wide open, just open. Seriously looks like the cat is drunk!! lol

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Interesting points from Japan's Railway

Tokyo has a unique experience with public transportation, especially the railway service. Below are just a few peculiarities I thought are interesting to share.

Through service concept - there are many operators in Japan. And there are a few routes which will span across several routes operated by different operators. To enhance the experiences of passengers, the companies came together with this through service concept. What happens is that a single physical train will be run through the entire route, but at various sections operated by different companies. What this does for passengers is that they no longer have to change to another line. Complications of fare splitting will only be done in the background by the companies only, easier for passengers.

No fare increase for past 27yrs except for tax increases - it's really quite amazing to hear this. I initially thought that it was due to exorbitant prices was set since 27yrs ago hence there was no need to increase fare prices. Thankfully that's not the case. The main reasons are the excellent streamlining of procedures and cost reductions within the companies. The backdrop of the Japan's deflating economy for the past few decades also contributed largely to it. This is likely to change in the future in their economic recovery.

Declining birth rates - I've always known that Japan had a greying population issue. But what I saw in their presentation was a physical decrease in population due to aging and declining birth rates. Astonishingly, they are predicting a drop in population of about 20% in 2030!!

Demand drives supply of rail lines - at the railway museum I saw and roughly read through the time line and development of rail in Japan. First rail began in Japan in the early 1800s. Developments then were slower and largely led by the population trends and movements. The really boom in development took place in the few decades prior to WWII. Amount of tracks more than doubled during this period of time. By end of WWII, Japan is already very well connected and additional developments of new lines in Japan had been much slower. In fact the network does not look much different.

A very diversed portfolio managed by train operators - East Japan Railway (JR East), is one of the largest transport companies in Japan. A subsidiary of the Japan Railway group of companies, the east sector covers Tokyo and deals with the highest traffic volume. But JR don't just operate trains. They operate buses/trams/Shinkansen as well. What's a little further fetched is that they run their own power plants to supply power to their trains. They build their own trains and sell to others as well. The winner for me is that they own and operate shopping malls and a chain of hotels as well!! 

Financially profitable train service - for many countries companies are struggling to balance their accounts and get out of the red. Rail and bus are meant to be low cost travel and are typically not very profitable. Yet in Japan they are able to be profitable, particularly in Tokyo as their ridership is extremely high. Majority of citizens in Tokyo actually use the public transport. However we did note that over services in relatively rural area are finding it hard to break even and some were eventually withdrawn.

Friday, April 11, 2014

Sky Blue


There's something magical about putting on a uniform. 

When in uniform, you no longer need an umbrella to shield you from the rain.

When in uniform, you feel more purpose.

When in uniform, you feel less afraid.

When in uniform, you feel that tiny inch taller.

Well, today's bye bye uniform. See you again soon.

蔚蓝的制服,
风雨中潇洒踏步。
仍炙热的心,
期待有用武之时。

Let It Go - Multi--language "Behind The Mic" version (from "Frozen")

This only shows that there are awesome singers everywhere in the world!!!



AWESOME!!






Saturday, March 22, 2014

Iceland - a peculiar travel destination

Traveling in Iceland is quite unique.

Firstly, weather in this country is ridiculously super minded. Check the forecast and u can see all kinds of description. In my short stay here I've encountered so many different type of weather conditions.

Fog
Snowstorm
Rainstorm
Bright sun
Gentle snow
Sand storm
Prolonged rain
Strong winds

Because of this unique weather behavior, gave rise to this interesting quotation on many souvenirs here. 

"If you don't like the weather here, just wait 5mins"

The ficklemindedness of the weather also means that any trip here should be planned with more spare days to cater for sub-optimal weather conditions. Especially if your itinerary includes northern light hunting or ice caving. These are 2 activities that require a specific SET of weather conditions to carry out. 

Secondly is the Icelandic currency, kronas. Iceland is a place where you can survive without a single cent. 

We spend almost 2 weeks here and have not a single cent of local currency. Everything can be paid for using the credit card. 

From paying for hotels, tours, car rentals to small purchases like a coke or a snickers bar, credit card is excepted. For certain unique items like taking the bus or paying for petrol, you can buy and top up a stored value card with credit card. Voila!! No cash required at all!!!

Downside of using the card for everything is that u really need to make a mental note of your expenditure. Otherwise, you can easily go broke. By the time u get the monthly bill, it's too late.

Third, food in Iceland is simple. Fish n lamb are the main staple. White fish like cod, halibut are common. Exotic choices like whale (minke), fermented shark, dried haddock are also available. But it seems these exotic choices are now more for tourists than locals.

Local lobsters are actually langoustines which are pretty much larger prawns with lobster-like shells. Quite tasty of done well. Lobster soup is also popular. I've had several versions of this dish. All yummy!!

Lamb had always been my personal favourite. Aside for the usual grilled option, locals also like to use it in soup, commonly just called meat soup. Typical meat soup is like an oily version of minestrone without tomatoes and with chunks of lamb. It's really good for the subzero temperatures.

Water, locals will tell you that Iceland water comes from the glaciers and is the cleanest tap water u can find in the world. For the cold tap water, yes it is. But watch out for the hot water from the taps, it has a strong sulphur taste and smell as it was heated by geothermal steam. For the uninitiated, it's going to be like rotten eggs. Effervescent vitamin C tabs or tea bags would be useful to cover the taste.

Finally, driving in Iceland is a breeze. Traffic is typically light. Considering its enormous land area and ridiculously small population, I've hardly seen a traffic jam, even though most adults here have a car or jeep. Motorcycles are few and far between.

There's only 1 major road that connects the entire country, highway 1. Even though it's a highway and majority of its speed limit is 90km/h, much of it outside the capital is only 2-lane, 2-way. In Singapore these roads will be considered  local accesses. It's not easy to get lost, given the lack of official roads, but if you ever go onto the dirt tracks, memorise your way back.

You will not see much traffic along highway 1, but don't be deceived by the route. The weather poses a huge threat. I had drove in thick fog where I could not see anything more than 20m away. Heavy snow and rain. Strong winds cause the biggest worry. There are occasions where I had to steer with a 5-10degree offset just to keep the car straight.

It is also very important to note that the direction which u stop the car becomes important under strong wind conditions. I almost had my car door ripped off by the wind had we not hold on to the door handle. Recommendation is to stop the car facing the wind. It's better to have a tougher time opening the door than to drive without a door. 

You have been warned!!

The sparse population also mean that petrol stations do not come as frequently as in Singapore. You have to plan your journey with a petrol station or 2 in mind. I faced the situation where the kiosk just did not work at one station and I had to backtrack to another kiosk to get petrol. I was running on reserves on that journey. Lucky I didn't need a tow in the end.

Paying for petrol is also peculiar. In the daytime it's usually fine if the station is manned. Just go to the counter and pay as per normal with your credit card. 

Difficulty comes when at night or at stations which are self-service, of which many are. A pin is required with your credit card. Iceland cards have a 4-digit pin. Singapore cards typically have 5 or 6digit pins. My experience with 2 brands are as follows.

Shell, self service kiosk only allowed me to key in 4 digits of pin. I tried first 4 digits of my UOB card and it was rejected. I tried the same with my Standard Chartered card and it worked.

N1, the biggest network of stations in Iceland. It accepted my UOB card with 6 digit pin and also my Standard Chartered card with a 5 digit pin. There's also the avenue to buy a prepaid card at manned stations for use at N1 self service stations. 

I would recommend N1 from my own experience.

There are only 2 types of fuel at most stations, 95 or diesel. Some have biodiesel. So no headaches for choice.

Friday, March 21, 2014

Iceland Day 8, Monday, March 17

Today we are leaving Skalafell, it's our last chance for ice caving. Our host at the guest house, Thorstein, arranged for us to meet the ice cave guide, Oskar directly at the glacier lagoon, which was near the cave.

It was great for Thorstein to do what he did. Oskar was actually fully booked, but he did Thorstein a favour and squeezed a slot in for us. 

Apparently the weather this morning gives us a good chance of visiting the cave. Finally!! 

The drive to the cave was quite an adventure itself. The jeep had to go over some unearthly terrain to reach the cave. See this video i took of the off road journey. http://youtu.be/CbbzbNLNsC4

The cave is really spectacular. It's like a cave carved out of blue crystal. The walls of the cave are very smooth and clear. The place is huge! Oskar told us that this was one of the largest cave he had found in recent years. It's relatively less cold in the caves as wind did not penetrate much. It was really comfortable in there.


Pictures just don't do justice to this place. This short video may do slightly better. http://youtu.be/mmROeL2Fns8

After the cave was to be a grueling 5hr drive back to Reykjavik. Driving in Iceland is nice. Traffic is light. I'll talk more about driving in another post.

We were actually rushing back to Reykjavik to catch a northern lights tour. This is the one purpose of our trip here to Iceland. It is also the main reason why we had to extend our stay here.

Today's weather gives us a slight chance of seeing the lights finally. We've been studying the weather patterns, cloud, moon, solar activity, etc. tonight shall be the night.

Before that we had to stop somewhere for dinner. Lobsters at Stokkseyri, supposedly the best in Iceland. We had to try it. It was a little detour we had to make but it was worth it!

These langoustines are so tender and juicy. We finished almost a kilogram worth of it.

Dessert was really interesting as well, meringue with snickers. 
It felt like a light dessert but I'm sure that's part of the deceiving nature of this sinful item. Yummy!!

When we finally reached Reykjavik, we were joined with 4 others to go on this northern light hunt. We were fortunate to have them with us. They were very chatty and we benefitted with the wealth of information they shared all the way. 

Well, the important question is probably, did we see the lights. I'm glad to say that was an astounding YES! The lights came on for us twice in the freezing cold.

To get a good spot, we drove up into the hills and the temperature was -11C. We could only last a few minutes outside the jeep. 

This was the first wave. Quite faint to the naked eye. Need the help of camera manipulation to make the green glows clearer. This first was lasted only lest than 10mins and it went all dark. 

We though that was it. As the solar activity was dying down. The suddenly there was a spike in the activity and the glows came on all around us.


It was clear even to the naked eye. It was awesome. This time it lasted slightly longer. It was amazing seeing the dance of the aurora live. It was freezing cold, but the adrenaline was pumping. 

By the time the lights faded off theoon has rise. Into mid sky and lit up the place. Clouds are also covering overhead. It was the last show on the night.

This is the best day of our entire trip. This day made the entire trip worth it!!

Iceland Day 7, Sunday, March 16

It's a lazy Sunday. 

We were supposed to ice caving at noon. Apparently aside from having heavy rain, which will flood the caves, warm sunshine is not recommended as well.

The warm sun will melt the glacier excessively and will also flood the caves. Ice caving, like watching the northern lights, requires very particular weather conditions. And today was not that weather.

The weather was generally fine for outdoors. The sun was nice and bright, a great relief from the chilling winds. We decided to chill instead. Have been doing quite a bit of driving the past days. 

So it's time to just enjoy the cabin.